Do children in your country ask for their parents' approval before they get married? Why or why not? When do children leave their parents' home in your country? When do parents stop supporting their children financially? Who in your family do you turn to if you have a problem? Why? What is a perfect family for you?
Do children in your country ask for their parents' approval before they get married? Why or why not? When do children leave their parents' home in your country? When do parents stop supporting their children financially? Who in your family do you turn to if you have a problem? Why? What is a perfect family for you?
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Zaida C.
10/11/2011 04:43:11 pm
In my country the family is one of de most important things for the people. The children usually don’t need for their parent’s approval because they can take their own decisions, but it is important that the parents know their children‘s couple.
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Zaida C.
10/11/2011 04:49:09 pm
In my country the family is one of de most important things for the people. The children usually don’t need for their parent’s approval because they can take their own decisions, but it is important that the parents know their children‘s couple.
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Arkan.H
10/11/2011 04:59:04 pm
In my country Iraq .we are never children married. We do have even young ,man or women must be resolved at the consent of his or her parents or guardian.bacoaus we are an islamic society. We have got even an adult woman didn’t married must be approval get her parents or guardian .we are never children leave parents home .but if him or her young married can do that. We have some people living in the village; young g man didn’t leave parents home after married. But living with parents. If the young after the married and works him or her, can spend and bear the responsibility for family the parents stop supporting. My mother helps everybody in my family if someone has a problem. The perfect family which are coherent, live together, didn’t any problem, and someone love someone. In my opinion this is not a good step children married or leave parents home.
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Vasilii Ivanov
10/12/2011 04:05:05 am
I came from Ukraine. I lived in the village. In our village retained some traditions especially in Christian families. Children live with their parents until they marry or until the children find their own accommodation. Children usually consult with their parents on all important issues. Parents never force children to do as parents think. Parents give wise counsel, and the children can choose what to do. Parents never stop to help children. They are trying to help their children with whatever they can. I still do I consult with my mom. I'm sure she will give me wise counsel. Exemplary family to me when kids respected their parents and take into account the parents' councils.
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Adila M.A.
10/13/2011 05:12:24 am
Of course in my country all children ask for their parents' approval before they get married because we are muslim and it is very important to us. Our parents are very important to us, so whatever we want we are asking for permission.In my country our children always lives with us until they will get married. If we have daughter we pay for everything until she lives with us, but after she get married than her husband pay. For our son we also pay before marriage, after he pay for everything. In our family when we have a problem we turn to our parents because our parents our best friends. For me a perfect family is when everyone in family love each other, support each other and respect each other.
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Inna Sh
10/13/2011 09:14:12 am
I am from Ukraine. In my country Almost every one asks their parents approval before they get married. Because usually kids live together with parents before married. After married they can keep live together too, with their parents. If new family doesn’t have own house. Parents usually stop supporting their children financially when they kids has job or finished university and start work. But when children staying in university they usually supporting them financially.
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Atelber L
10/13/2011 09:27:12 am
Yes they do ask there parent's befor they plan there marry.In my coundry,it is important to all chirdren to tell there parent's befor they get marry.Because when the time that they tell there parent's so they show that they love there parent's and they are not forget them from the time that they was a baby.That is so excited to a family when they know what there children want at this time.So after they get married,so they will leav there parent's and builded there own life.This is the important idea to all children because it is part of our life...
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edward degtyaryov
10/13/2011 10:26:55 am
I don’t know about other family, I will write about me. When I was in a military I do not ask my parents approval for my decision. I always try to think carefully and watch my situation and decision from many different sites. I try to think for couple steps ached like in chess. When I decided to fly to America, I just let my parents know. They were surprised, because I have nobody there. When I decided to get married, I also, just let them know. It does not mean I do not respect my parents. If I do mistake in my life that will be my fault, I won’t blame them. Even though I encourage children to listen their parents because they have more life experience. But one aspect is important that youth can make right and quick decision in extreme situation. Child doesn’t have to be slow, especially if it is a boy, who is waiting for mom’s or father’s decision. In my opinion family has to be like a team, but it doesn’t happen very ofthen.
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Alina N.
10/13/2011 02:17:44 pm
In my country parents and children respect each other. Parent’s opinion is very important for us. When we get married we ask our parents what they think about that. Even if they have different opinion they still let their children choose to who to live with. Kids live with parents until they get married. Parents help children in every part of life. They support us morally and financially and they give us the best education. When children get married parents stop supporting their children financially but they don’t stop to help their children. My parents are perfect example for me they lived 33 years together in love. They help me all of my life. And now when I’m married I can ask them for help or smart advice.
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Martha Ledbetter
10/14/2011 04:35:12 am
Do children in your country ask for their parents' appoval before they get married?
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Roman Ch
10/14/2011 12:39:59 pm
I think that this is an ideal family where the parents love each other. I think it is respect, understanding and trust. I think parents will always help their children. When children start working, the parents stop to help them finance. In my country, the children decide for themselves when they leave home. Someone very early, others late. If I have a problem, I'll call my mom. I know that she'll always understand and always help me. I think that there is no ideal family because we all make mistakes. The main thing is not to copy the mistakes of their parents. Need to learn from the mistakes of others and try to build a family close to the ideal.
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Maria Pezoa
10/14/2011 04:17:22 pm
In my country generally the children ask for their parents’ approval before they get married. They ask their parents because is very important a good relationship between the two families. In my country especially today not is easy leave parent’s home because the economic is very hard and the first time is more easy live with parents’ home. The parents stop supporting their children when they have a job and they can be alone, rent a apartment or when finally the University and find a job. In my family my daughter when she went to live with her friends she returned a year later because she use to fell very alone but one year later was to live with her boyfriend after finish your career, today is her husband. I think there is no perfect family ,but a good family is one where there is love, reinforcing , solidarity, tolerance, acceptance, respect, union, and always together.
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Steven.F
10/15/2011 08:36:38 am
In my country the children ask for their parent’s approval before they get married is more important thing. If you married, you aren't a children, you have your family, you don't need your parent’s approval anything, but you haven't been marry, you is a child, you need your parent's approval. The parents stop supporting their children financially when they finish their studies and they have a job. If I have a problem think my parents will help me.
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Valentina F
10/15/2011 11:50:34 am
Usually before the wedding, the groom talks with parents and bride's parents as well. When the groom and a bride are younger than eighteen years of age, they must receive a permission from parents. At the traditional wedding, the bride wears a white dress and veil. During their ceremony the bride and groom promise each other to love each other. They also answer questions about love. Then the groom takes the ring and places it on his bride's left hand. Although in Europe, the ring goes on the right hand. My children got married in America, therefore they wear their rings on the left hand.
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Alex K.
10/15/2011 02:12:14 pm
These traditions are fading. In some countries still preserved these traditions. In my country children do not ask their parents approval before they get married. Basically, thees traditions have been preserved in religions families. In rich families children also have to ask their parents approval before they get married. Because they cover common financial interests. In such families children live on the money which have made their parents. The parents, who want to preserve their capital, trying to help their children take the right choice. But often, when people get married, they don't ask any approval. The world is changing, and changing traditions.
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safieh gh
10/15/2011 04:24:07 pm
In my country, parents give advises to their children when they want to get married. They try to guide and lead their children because sometime children fell in love and cannot choose the right person. Although the children make the final decision.
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Mahmud M.
10/15/2011 04:58:25 pm
In my country, this habit is very ordinary. The boy or the girl still in the family house till they get married. Sometimes especially the boys, even they get married, they still live with his wife in the family house. For sure the children take their parents approval before they get married. It is a shame if not. The parents still support their children after married if they need help. Anyone of the family face any problem, all the family help him/her to solve this problem. Some time even the uncle or anyone of the relatives help and share to solve it. The families like this I think this is the perfect families because you feel stronger when anyone support you and give you any advice.
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Mandeep B
10/15/2011 05:54:23 pm
I am from India and in my country has tradition for arranged marriage. Men and women have always choice of who they want to marry. The majority of Indians have their marriage planned by their parents and other respected family members, with the consent of the bride and groom. Arrange matches are made after into account factors such as age, height, personal values and the backgrounds of their families their castes. In my country the marriage is thought to be for life and divorce rate is extremely low 1.1% compared with about 50% in the United States. Children live with their parents for long time some time for life. Mostly daughters stay with their husband and in- laws-families after marriage. Mostly sons stay with their parents. In India people mostly live in joint families and everyone love other family members. Parents stop supporting their children after children get jobs. But in future if children have problem and ask for help, parents gladly help them. Usually, if I have problem I can talk to my husband first and then my parents. If we live together does not mean that it is a perfect family, I think perfect family means when all family members care for each other and they always support each others in bad time and in good time.
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raul vasquez
10/15/2011 06:42:59 pm
In my country people do not have to ask their parents the approval to get married but in some cases is traditional to ask their parents the approval. People in my country live their homes when they can support them self and their current couple and have good job. In some cases people don't live their parents house because the parents don't want to their child live. In some circumstances the parents stops helping their children but they help the couple financial when they really needed. Well I am not married yet but I will turn to my mom and my father if I have a problem because I know they are always there for me. I don’t think there is a perfect family but a perfect family for me is that people who helps each other.
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Candelario H
10/16/2011 01:44:19 am
In these case Mexican children,don't need to ask to the parents'aproval before they get married.Most of children they know,when they are ready to take these choice;becouse they are big enought to take control of they're own life and married with.So boys,they left their parents'house,when they've responsability ready to taking they're own way,to have their own'house and family. Stop supporting? These question is for parents who don't had much love for they're family.I think there is not age to stop supporting in any way your children, when you love them . So ... They are your children doesn't matter how older you are . If I have problems ; I don't have nobody to turn to I am too old to gave my tears to someone'else ; I have nobody if I am tearfull.The perfec family for mi are those familys that they share,compassion,peace,love, and will be together forever.under the blessing of God.
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Maria Gabriela de Paula
10/16/2011 07:51:17 am
Yes, I'm Brazil, the tradition is groom ask the bride her hand to marry her and then, when they have the family together he will ask to bride’s dad the permission to marry her.
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Samir Hamed
10/16/2011 11:31:58 am
In my country Jordan children usually need to get approval from thier parents before they get married .Because that is from our culture , and kind of respect to all the family .For me i'll never get married without my family approval .Children stay live with their family until they get married , or if they have to live in place far from their family for a reason such as work , or study .parents still support their children until they can support them selves.When I have problem I turn to my father or my big brother .Because my father and my big brother take care of my family and me .The perfect family is my family , because we love , support , feel , take care of each other . I love my family .
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Dmitriy G
10/16/2011 12:43:06 pm
I lived in a Muslims city. So we are not only asking parents permit ion to gat mired, they also choose wife for us.
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Maryna N.
10/16/2011 01:13:36 pm
When I decided to get married I didn't ask my parents for their approval. I didn't do it because I knew,that they loved me and wanted me to be happy. They said that it was my choice. If I wanted to marry with this boy I could do it. My parents are the best parents. If I need a help I can always ask them for it. After I got married I moved to another country to live. My parents very worried about me, but they let me do it. They called me every day to ask how I was doing. When my first daughter was born, my mom wasn't able to be close to me. We were in two different countries. But she called me and we spoke a lot with her.
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Esmaeil M
10/16/2011 01:16:11 pm
Yes, they do. Almost 92% of children in my country especially girls ask their parents before get married. Because parents have many experience about it. So they are the best counseling for them. But a few children think they know more than their parents, or they think their parents belong to the Stone Age. These children usually aren’t successful, because their parents don’t support them, especially girls. In our culture when girls get married her parents give her many furnishing she will need. If children don’t ask, parents won’t support them. Usually in my country children stay in parents home until they get married and get a job. And usually parents take care and support the children if they get middle age. If one of my families has a problem ask me about a remedy for that problem, I gladly counseling them. Also if I have a problem usually I turn my wife. I think the best and perfect family take care and support each other in life time.
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tuan le
10/16/2011 03:03:07 pm
In my country, the parent's approval is the very important to marriage, but it's not at all. The children need the advice from their parent experiences. Because the marriage makes a mark the essential part of the happy lives. After the wedding, the parent stops supporting finance to their children. They have to solve all the problem by themselves. Sometimes, they are in need of money, the parents always help them actively. The home is necessary to you when you want to come back. The perfect family is based on the happy marriage. The happy marriage is from the loyal love. The loyal love is from to 2 sides. The perfect family includes the home and the love. As the witness, the perfect family is my family. To live with parents and take care them.
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Saeideh B
10/16/2011 03:04:23 pm
Yes, They do. All of children in my country confer with their parents for university, job, and marry because they know they parents have experience in there life. Just special children don’t confer with their parents. In my country Parents supporting their children until they get married and get best job. When a girl gets married their parent get celebration wedding and buying anything she need. If I have a problem I turn my husband. In my opinion a perfect family understanding each other about anything.
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Jose C.
10/16/2011 03:05:16 pm
It is a tradition in my country Mexico that most children ask for their parent’s approval before they get married. Family is very important in my country. Parents are the head of the family and asking for approval before they get married is to show respect towards their parents. Our culture and traditions have changed over the years and children leave their parents’ home in an early age. Nowadays Children move away to college or to relocate for a job. Years ago children moved away from their parents’ home only after they got married. I do not think there is a specific time when parents stop supporting their children financially. However, part of my culture is to teach our children morals, hard work, unity and how to support themselves financially. After I got married my closest support is my wife. My wife is my closes support because she always finds an answer to any problems. A perfect family for me is to have unity, love, respect, and mutual support.
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Natalia G
10/16/2011 03:58:45 pm
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Meivel L
10/16/2011 04:38:43 pm
In my country the children when adults do not usually ask for approval before marriage, because they are considered adults to make their own decisions.
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Valentyna B
10/16/2011 04:42:49 pm
Most of children in my country get married by their own decision , but they ask their parent for advice . Very rarely parents tell their kids who they have to married ,but it is not usual situations . In our culture most of children have a choice ,and I think it is very good . Children leave parents house when they get married . It is unusual when they leave parents just because of the age . Parents support children until they get financially independent . Many parent help children even if they are married . If I have a problem I turn to my mother-in-low . She is awesome and just lovable person ,she is always ready to help . The perfect family is when couple love each other , when they are friends , and when they help each other in different kinds of situations . It is very important to have a strong and happy family .
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inna k
10/30/2011 12:17:39 pm
Yes, children usually ask for their parens permission before getting married.Their parens dont tell the who to get married to though.The children usually leave their parents home after they get married.But sometimes they stay at their parents house until they finish their house because they usually built a house after they get married.Parents stop supporting their children financially ussualy after the marriage.A perfect family for me is a family that is friendly to eachother and trust eachother.
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11/6/2011 08:40:21 am
Approval Before Getting Married
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mykola k
11/6/2011 02:35:10 pm
Yes in my country children ask for their parents approval before they get married but their parents dont tell them who to get married to though.Their parents ussually stop financily supporting them after they get married.Ussually after the get married they live at the parents house at one or another before they find or built a home that they could move in.A good family for me is a family that is friendly and cares and respects one another.
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