Do you think love is necessary in order to have a good marriage? Did your parents or grandparents fall in love before they got married?
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Monica Cardella
1/28/2010 03:11:41 pm
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Cesar
1/29/2010 01:03:41 am
Cesar Ibarra
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Yana P
1/29/2010 07:48:19 am
Yana P. ESL G50
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liliya rudenko
1/29/2010 12:57:54 pm
Liliya Rudenko
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venus k
1/30/2010 01:12:05 am
In my entire life, I never hear anyone say “I hate you that why I am married you.” Also, I never see any men propose any women by handing a diamond ring and say” I hate you so much. Would you marry me?” Have you? We all know what makes a couple decided to get married and spend the less of their life together. The answer is love. Love is very powerful feeling and can make anyone do anything for a long time. You might think that in some countries parents pick women or men for their sons and their daughters to marry. They have never seen each other before, and how can their marriage will be good? If you don’t understand or you can’t see how can you marry them? I believe you don’t know the word love well. In my opinion, love can’t happen overnight. It takes time to build up in our feeling. That is the reason why people who live in those countries always have a long good married life. Because they take their time to learn about each other and they take their time to let the feeling that they have to each other build up in their heart. Finally, they know that they can’t live without each other anymore. That is love. I strongly agree that love is necessary in order to have a good marriage.
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Alex Moskalenko
1/30/2010 07:08:44 am
Alex Moskalenko
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Tatyana S
1/30/2010 01:11:58 pm
In my opinion, love is necessary in order to have a good marriage, because if husband and wife don’t love each other, how are they going to live together every day and be happy? What example they will show to their kids? If they have the kids, because if pair doesn’t have love it means they don1t want any.
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Dzianis R
1/30/2010 02:20:41 pm
Love is a great power which makes our life so important.
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Liavon Sauko
1/30/2010 02:59:52 pm
I think that love is the foundation of a good marriage because love is the source of good deed and happiness, which makes two people one. In a family where love exists there is no dividing between what one should do and the other. They are going to do everything together. Any questions they’ll solve together. Through happiness and sorrow they’ll walk together. Love in a family is like a sun that shines and warms. I knew one family in which everyone did everything together. They had four kids, but parents never screamed at them. They always patiently explained to their kids what is good and what is bad. The kids felt loved by their parents. When people go into their house, they feel an astonishing atmosphere. It’s like you walked into a different world, where there is no worries, but warmth, coziness and love. In a family where there is love there will never be darkness or coldness, there is always comfort, warm and beauty.
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Nadiia N
1/31/2010 02:24:45 am
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Orkideh z.
1/31/2010 04:13:45 am
Orkideh Z.
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Octavian Goga
1/31/2010 05:01:18 am
Octavian Goga
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nadia k
1/31/2010 07:08:36 am
When we look at history different counties, not all countries get married for love. There still is religious barrier, and many people get married without love because parents said or chose them. Love is not always good because it brings determinate sufferings. It is also because love does not exist between couples. Many people have different situation in their life, and not all people get married with love. If we look at the modern world, the time is changed. Nobody wants to live without love. Love is life, love is for marriage, and that’s why many people get divorced now, because they do not want to live without love anymore. If I think about love how people can live without love. It is impossible, because only love can forgive many sins. When people love each other they have understanding, and don’t notice any mistakes. They forgive everything, and their life is easier and happier. Therefore, love is necessary in order to have a good marriage. When marriage is built on love people have less stress and they are healthier. This marriage is stable, and they stay together for a long time and always almost on all life.
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Svetlana M
1/31/2010 07:52:48 am
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Irina T
1/31/2010 07:54:11 am
Love is the strongest and deepest element in life, and marriage should be the result of love. It is not true that love can result from marriage. Rarely can we hear of a miracle, when a married couple felt in love after marriage. So, to start a marriage is necessary a real love. In my opinion, everyone loves each other when they get married. At least they think they love each other. But why people get divorced? It is a complicated question with different answers. Every case of divorce has its opinion about marriage. People stop loving each other and it is worst when people start hate each other. I cannot believe that they loved each other once. Maybe they loved the money, or the car, or clothes, or hair style and they thought that it was love. My friend was married by a wealthy man. He was strong, cute and had everything to start a family. She liked him a lot, but she didn’t make the difference between like and love. After a year, she gave a birth to a healthy boy, thinking that the child will make their relationship stronger. Not so long after that she met another man, fall in love with him and got married. They love each other, but poor child has to suffer the most. She fights with her first husband about the child. Both want the child and nobody wants each other. Who will keep a man beside a woman? The child, or court, or jail? The judge, the court, and the jail would not satisfy the child needs. Only love can make a man to stay beside a woman and a child. So, I’ll say: first love, then marriage, and the result a happy child.
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Biniam H
1/31/2010 08:03:54 am
I think love is not enough to have a good marriage .Of course love is most important without it there could not be a wedding or marriage .Even though love is what brings individuals together and to commit to one another ,the initial passion would not lost. As time goes by things could change .Life problems and issues will part of the marriage. The strong feeling of love could subside and little by little lead to conflict and possible marriage break up .To support and sustain marriage started by love more additional things need to exit: trust, compromise, forgiveness, understanding and respect of each other. These all without question will make the marriage bond stronger and lasting. I don’t have experience in marriage I am single. In my opinion, that is the way it should be.☺
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Dina Lonskiy
1/31/2010 09:08:08 am
Love control's the world. I think if that there was no love then the world will fall apart. From love children are born, and when they grow, they are loved by their mothers and fathers. When children grow up they meet each other and fall in love. And they want to spend their live's together.
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Toan N
1/31/2010 09:50:18 am
I think a good marriage is someone really love is basic in marriage. Someone got marriage without love. That’s big mistake and will be divorce soon. For example my uncle just divorce last year. He got marriage by arrangement of his parents. He was a citizen of America. His wife lived in Vietnam. They didn’t know each other and they got marriage without they had one son When he lost his job and didn’t have any more money pay bills. She decided to divorce because she was worry about money. Their kid lived with him and was growing up in an environment where the love between was missing. marriage’s happiness is both partner share life each other. I think love is important equipment for a good marriage. My grandparents felt in love before. They told me you can’t get married without love and I thought that true.
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Toan n
1/31/2010 10:01:46 am
I think love is necessary for a good marriage because love is basic in marriage. Someone got married without love. That’s big mistake and will be divorce soon. For example my uncle just divorced last year. He got married by arrangement of his parents. He was a citizen of America. His wife lived in Vietnam. They didn’t know each other and they got married without love. They had one son . When he lost his job and didn’t have any more money for pay bills, his wife decided to divorce because she was worry about money too much. Their kid lived with him and was growing up in an environment where the love between was missing. marriage’s happiness is both partners share life each other. I think love is important equipment for a good marriage. My grandparents felt in love before. They told me “ you can’t get married without love” and I thought that’s true.
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Paraskoviya Moskalenko
1/31/2010 10:44:24 am
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Diana M.
1/31/2010 10:52:23 am
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Francisca F
1/31/2010 11:01:10 am
Francisca Flores
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Kim Nguyen
1/31/2010 11:51:47 am
Kim Nguyen
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LeslieM
1/31/2010 12:26:13 pm
LOVE THE ESSENTIAL INGREDIENT
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Simona D
1/31/2010 01:08:34 pm
I think love is very important in order to have a solid relationship in marriage. The love for marriage
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Halyna Samiylenko
1/31/2010 01:09:48 pm
Halyna Samiylenko
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Viktor Samiylenko
1/31/2010 01:11:47 pm
Viktor Samiylenko
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Raymundo L
1/31/2010 01:12:40 pm
In my opinion love is necessary in order too have a good marriage. Love is the most important feeling that a person can experiment. Where the love is, everything is happiness. Love has the power to change people's life. Everybody dreams finding the right person to share their lifes. Everybody wants a beautiful girl or a handsome man, but when you fall in love with somebody, the most important thing is love. Love makes us to forget bad things end forgive.
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Ghassan fares
1/31/2010 01:31:34 pm
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Midori Lane
1/31/2010 01:50:17 pm
I feel that love is very important in a marriage because it keeps both partners happy to be with each other, but I think when you talk about love, there are many things about people that make up what you love about a person. For instance, you may be attracted to them physically, but how they act in the relationship or act around you when with other people may affect hows you feel about them. Also, how they think is very important because their judgements and their backgrounds affect a relationship in marriage. Marriage means 2 people living together, usually to create a family and the marriage based on love. When 2 people argue and fight all the time because they are incompatible and their is no balance within the marriage, it can fall apart and make both of them miserable. That's why I feel it is very important that you get to know your partner well before taking the next step forward.
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Tabitha K
1/31/2010 02:27:53 pm
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Marina F
1/31/2010 02:38:19 pm
In my opinion,love is the most important part of marriage.If marriage has no love,there is more arguments and divorce.People notice only bad things in each other.My grandparents fell in love before they got married.They had a good marriage for more than 40 years,until unfortunately,my grandfather died.They set a good example to their children over those years.
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Sung hoon Yoon
1/31/2010 02:41:03 pm
In my thought love is essential part of a good marriage.
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Andrey Sergeev
1/31/2010 03:08:13 pm
Love it is Love . I really think love is very important in any person’s .Life also, in marriage.
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Vlad G.
1/31/2010 03:30:39 pm
I think love is necessary in marriage in order to have a good healthy relationship. No marriage could be happy without love. Before people get married they usually fall in love. Those people who commit to each other and get married not because they love each other but because they get something out of it will never stay in marriage for a long time. They will not be able to enjoy they married life which does bring all sorts of problems. Those who love each other will overcome problems in married life and enjoy their marriage.
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HAMID.S
2/1/2010 04:44:17 pm
Love is an important element in any relationship, but I do not believe that it is absolutely necessary to be in love, to have a good marriage. Marriageis made up of many thing such as friendship, sex, loyalty, love and companionship to name a few. A combination of all would be ideal, but marriage can be good and last for years without two people being in love, as long as they care about each other. Many marriages that start off with people falling madly in love might actually be more like falling in lust. When the togertherness, and the sex start to become just another chore that has to be done, and once the bills start rolling in, the marriage goes on the rocks. Some marriages fall apart after a spouse retires because they now have to be around each other constantly. When I met my husband at first I didn't love him right away. As we got to know each other I began to love him because he was always there for me, he listened to me, and he showed me he cared by the way he treated me.
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Shahla A
2/1/2010 04:45:56 pm
Definitely love is necessary to have a good marriage Love in life make good quality in relationship.
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Osman cardona
2/1/2010 04:46:24 pm
I think love is the most important thing in the marriage.
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Vladimir K.
2/1/2010 04:46:58 pm
Yes they were in love when they got married, and that's why we have a strong families
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Elva H
2/2/2010 04:16:05 am
Love is very important.
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Hanh Nguyen
2/2/2010 04:49:40 am
Love is very important in life because everybody always loves and need help. So I think love is very necessary in order to get marriage but my parent didn't fall in love before they got marriage. That because Asian woman are there tolerance people. They spend all their love for family. My mother and my father met each other at my mother's house. And after few weeks later, they had their wedding. They have four children. My mother usually stays at home because of some choice. My father goes to work every day and gave my mother his salary. They sadly scold angrily each other. Asian people are famous about high tolerance. They are scared about bad reputation. If they divorce, they are worried about bad effect would influence to their children. So I think love is very important in order to good marriage because they can understand thoughtfully about each other. Importantly, they can control their behavior when they get angry. This is the most important ingredient for a good marriage.
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Nhien Nguyen
2/7/2010 12:14:48 am
When I was a child .I watched TV a lot .The TV had a little bit program .It is very old and boring .it didn't has program political, a little bit movie, sport and advertisement product .When I was grew ,so the TV program changed very much . Sometime I watched TV I saw it had strange .the program was very new and interesting .It had a lot of program .It showed full time. It had a lot of movie ,sport ,advertisement product and everything about life .In the future ,I think it will very interesting .Everybody will watch it is long time but will do not boring and tired so it is also very funny .Before I did not see my parent watch TV but now I am meeting their watch. My parent watches TV every day.
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Leontiy n
2/9/2010 10:39:59 am
Abaut love.In my opinion,I think,love for good marriage is not nessesary.It is only my opinion.I see,and I know many exemples when people fall in love and than for some time they don't like each other,they hate eath other.That is because they fall in love temporary,same thing in their senses from devil.And when you fall in love too strong, without mind,you should be calm and think from where these senses come from.I don't know about my grand parents,but my parents and my family we all did ours marriages as a ruls: fall in love.Only good upbringing,strong tradition,kids,our reigion keep ours family together.I think it should be somethink another.It should to be common interest,a work for together,ofcours kids,and many many things that makes life together very intersting.And in these interrelations are generating real love,I think ,love forever.
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Valeriy Sentsov
2/14/2010 09:27:39 am
Love of my parents
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Galina Sentsova
2/14/2010 09:41:14 am
Love in Marriage
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Dmitriy Yefanov
2/17/2010 08:46:14 am
Do you think love is necessary in order to have a good marriage?
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Liliya Sira
3/3/2010 02:44:21 pm
Liliya Sira
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Carmen G
3/6/2010 11:56:12 am
Love is an important element in any relationship, but I do not believe that it is absolutely necessary to be in love, to have a good marriage. Marriageis made up of many thing such as friendship, sex, loyalty, love and companionship to name a few. A combination of all would be ideal, but marriage can be good and last for years without two people being in love, as long as they care about each other. Many marriages that start off with people falling madly in love might actually be more like falling in lust. When the togertherness, and the sex start to become just another chore that has to be done, and once the bills start rolling in, the marriage goes on the rocks. Some marriages fall apart after a spouse retires because they now have to be around each other constantly. When I met my husband at first I didn't love him right away. As we got to know each other I began to love him because he was always there for me, he listened to me, and he showed me he cared by the way he treated me.
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Svitlana V.
3/7/2010 02:44:00 pm
I think that love is necessery in order to have a good marriage because two people that decided to get married have to live whole life together. And life sometimes has some difficulties. If two people really love each others different troubles in their life will make them stronger. Also, they will understand and forgive each others. And they will never hurts each others feellings. Also, they will never divorse. But in the marriage without love everything will be okey untill the first problem in their life. For example, my mother could be a doctor, but she became a nurse because she got married with my father. But i think she is happy because she has three wonderfull children.
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Paul Yefanov
3/18/2010 08:42:49 am
I think it is just imposible for two people to be together if there is no love between them. Because if there is love between a couple that means that they will always understand each other and they will both be happy and enjoy each other in life. I think there will be less problems if there is going to be love between two people because they will love and forgive each other and try to support each other. And what about my parents? Yes, first there was love than they got married and right now they have a really strong family and it was same with my grandparents.
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Elva H.
3/25/2010 04:04:51 am
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