What is good behavior? What is bad behavior? Were you well-behaved as a child? How can parents teach good manners? How can a person make good choices? What behavior is acceptable and what behavior is not acceptable? Did any of your friends have a good or band influence on you? Explain how.
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Tatyana K.
2/10/2011 01:48:29 pm
Our behavior is very important in life. It is important for everyone to behave good. People around us watch our behavior. Sometimes we don’t know how to act in certain situations, but good behavior is very important in life. People say hello and smile. People say thank you when they should. On the bus younger people stand up and let an older person sit down. Man open doors for women. Children listen to their parents and they are polite to other people. Kids try to help their parents. These and many other things are good behavior.However sometimes we can see bad behavior. Children get angry when their parents yell at them. Sometimes children ignore what their parents say. Young people smoke in public areas. Sometimes people throw out trash threw their car window. Young people use bad words in their conversation. When I was a child I always listened to my parents. They taught me to respect those people that are older than me. My friends were very good. They had good influence on me. I think we always have to remember who we are. We need to remember how we act when people watch us. Our behavior sometimes shows our character and who we really are.
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Mohammad-H
2/11/2011 04:17:32 am
What causes humans distinct from other animals make good behavior and what good behavior with bad behavior to separate cultures. Human life at all on the planet not yet provide specific standards to give good behavior.For example, one thing in one culture is considered good and it is the bad things elsewhere.Human behavior has been always looking for good used in all cultures but has not been completely successful. Respect for each other and respect the rights of perhaps the most important part of good behavior. Accept anyone with any taste and lifestyle and religion tolerate each other's good behavior is that all cultures need.People should live with this kind of behavior and also do not inflict damage and even be prepared to help each other when they need.East and West should go hand in hand with each other and behave peacefully and build a new world of cultural integration.Good behavior and bad behavior no one knows. This is something that coexistence can be achieved. During all the tests and human errors is finished and we must work towards another world to go and raise the tolerance level.The type of service is the most polite behavior and thinking only of ourselves and not respect the interest of society's most rude behavior.
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Parisa-R
2/11/2011 06:03:20 am
I think when a person dosn't obzerve to be comfortable other peopel. What is a bad behaviour for exampel , I want to say a story about the bad behaviour . I almost remember 11 years a go , my family and our friends family decided to go to travel . We should 10 hours drove with our car and we liked to be together while the travel , so we rented a van and went to destination . We dicided to write all things to spend and divided them at the last day of our travel , but during the travel never observed to be our comfortable . When we were in car our friend family increased the sound of music .We were uncomfortable because our daughter is who was jast 2 years old , she feard of that .They bought each thing for food and they didn't consult with us and we didn't usually like that foods. We should woke up in morning and went to bed in night when they liked . I don't remember that travel , because we studyed of what was bad behavour and we change that with good behavour.I think of they consult with us and observe us , we had a good travel and we didn't uncomfortable of that was bad behavour . They could toll with us about our favorit food and each family could eat what to like.They increase the sound when our doughter wasnot sleep.I think , they jast thought to want themselves and didn't think us.
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Vladimir Petsenyuk
2/11/2011 01:10:26 pm
Throughout many thousand years, human society has built conception about different kinds of behavior. There are two main kinds of behavior: good behavior and bad behavior. Respectable people always set examples of good behavior to everybody. They always are polite and never are rude. If other people need help, they help them. Unfortunately, today, there are many people behave incorrectly. They take drugs and drink alcohol. Some people evade taxes and make other crimes. We can watch bad behavior every day. For example, some students at our college are cheating, and some students are helping them to cheat. These are serious violations. When I was a child, my behavior wasn’t bad because my parents spent a lot of time for my accomplishment. I learned to differ good behavior from bad behavior. Behavior is acceptable, if a person doesn’t break the Law, and his/her actions don’t disturb other people. Everybody wants to have neighbors and colleagues with good behavior. If a person often breaks the Law and bother other people, his/her behavior is not acceptable. For example, some drivers drive their cars too fast and often change lanes on the road. This behavior is very dangerous and unacceptable. Sometimes, our friends have influence on us. If we have good friends, we can try to copy their model of behavior. If we have bad friends, we need to change them.
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Roman Ustyak
2/11/2011 02:24:04 pm
I think it's a really interesting questions because rules of behavior usually change through years. For example: one hundred years ago no one even told about that to live before marriage with a partner, but it is normal thing now, isn't it? And another example: now, parents can't practice corporal punishment to their children, but several years ago it was normal, and it was part of rearing. And one more else: now it is normal when a guy live with another guy, they can live as a family, but it was really inadmissible a few years ago. What will be farther? The growth people can't decide their problem themselves, what can they study young generation? However there are some constant roles of behavior that big part of people go on to follow now. Children have to obey older people because they are wiser, they made some mistakes in their life and can teach something their children or students. We teach our children to be kind, patient, polite, because people have to be such. Our society requires it. We have to be honest, just because we can destroy each other and democratic system which we built. It is really hard to study our children to be kind now because we need to be cunning and impudent to study success. This is conflict. What to do. Our laws help us to teach correct. I like the USA because i see that law-governed state worries about rearing. I don't agree with all, but it is better here than somewhere else, isn't it?
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Svetlana A.
2/11/2011 04:56:19 pm
Good behaviors is a good manners. Good manners are important in life ,in school and the work. Good manners for adults also include table manners talking with .Not talking with your mouth full. Not eating with your mouth open. saying please and thank you. Respect for the older people. To give up the place, will pass forward. People with no manners offend most by their behavior.
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Svetlana A.
2/11/2011 05:01:04 pm
Good behaviors is a good manners. Good manners are important in life ,in school and the work. Good manners for adults also include table manners .Not talking with your mouth full. Not eating with your mouth open. Saying please and thank you. Respect for the older people. To give up the place, will pass forward. People with no manners offend most by their behavior.
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Nafise kia
2/11/2011 06:54:45 pm
I belive that good
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nafise kia
2/11/2011 07:23:29 pm
I believe that good behavior need carefully developed.Good behavior is seen when someoneis nice,polite,and has good manners.Also,when someone can control his anger when he get's upset.Think's before he talk's,is honest,keep his word,smiles,has no gossip,has dining etiquette,has no jealousey and has self digninty is good behavior.Sometime' we can see bad behavior too.someone that is not keep them promise,bad atittude,having bad table manner,it is rude to interrupt someone when they talking,it is not good to be impatient and it is not acceptable to make fun someone.Behavior is unacceptable is to steal somthing's from someone and accepteble is hold a door for someone.i remember i was student in high school when my high school coach by example taught me how to be positive hard working and kind to other so i had good in fluence.
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Viktoria P. G-500
2/12/2011 03:22:18 am
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Viktoria P. G-500
2/12/2011 03:23:31 am
at a early age, parents should teach their children good behavior. better if they teach on own example. Parents should start at the beginning foundations of good manners. The foundation of manners is how to conduct conversation, how to be at the table, in the street, on a visit and during every day life. Good behavior for kids is when they listen parents and answer nicely. Also when people say thank you, excuse me or sorry. When people help others with out complaining. Never stop always aspire to learn as much impossible. All actions should become a habit and to be natural
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Alena Shloma
2/12/2011 04:43:27 am
Our behavior is important in our life. Sometimes people can tell what kind of person are you. Our behavior can be see in different ways. Sometimes we talk to people and use bad language.Sometimes we say hello to people and usually smile. But when we smile people can't see what kind off behavior we have. We are doing good things to other people sometimes we are saying good words to people and that tells them that we are well behaved. When we are doing bad things usually people think that our parents didn't teach how to behave well. Usually bad behavior is not acceptable for example, when a person breaks the law and do random things that behavior is not acceptable. I have a lot of friends and they influencing me in a good way. we always need to behave ourselves and everywhere we need to know how to behave well
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Natalya Z.
2/12/2011 04:48:20 am
Our good and bad behavior take start in our childhood. It is most important for to telling with their kids about good manners. Each child have to understand that good manners very important in our live. Also adults should to give an examples of good behavior to them. In my childhood my parents always taught me good manners like respect older people, be patient, don't tell the bad words, and be nice.Today i teach my daughter the same sings.I think the most bad behaviors are in the teenage time, and parents should take care about there child don't be involved in the bad company and don't smoke cigarettes, don't drink alcohol. It is always best to reward good behavior and ignore bad behavior for kids. And when child get adult he or she will take more good things. Also i would like to tell about behaviors on the roads. That is depend from good and bad manners to get safety on the roads. The most important to have a good behavior for drivers. When driver has a bad behavior and bad temper it is could occur some accidents on the roads. The driver should know about the rules and respect another drivers. Some bad things it is angry, selfish and impatient driver. I sow many examples bad behaviors on the roads. I remember the story that was in Russia in my city. I walked on the street and sow some women started to get cross the road but driver didn't stop the car in time and stopped to close near the woman. The woman abraded very mach and became to hit the car her handbag, she was too angry on the driver. Then driver got out the car and become scrimping to the woman. A lot of people stood around and sow that. There where too many bad words from man and woman. And they almost got fight. But police came in time and took them. That was one example of the bad behavior. But i believe there are many good behavior in our life because we are the people and we suppose to respect to each others, take care about our closers and never be angry. It is very important to keep peace and be friendly. In that ways we could have a civil society.
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Maryna Kirbabina
2/12/2011 05:13:39 am
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Igor Kirbabin
2/12/2011 05:15:52 am
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Oksana B
2/12/2011 05:16:13 am
I remember myself in my childhood when my parents taught me a good behavior, good manners and be respectful of other people. They taught me what is good and what is bad. I’m not sure what makes people become good. It is ether the influence of parents, or school, or friends, or church. It is hard to decide, because each of these factors has an influence on a person’s character. It is up to everyone individually to decide for themselves.
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Igor Kirbabin
2/12/2011 05:29:03 am
What is bad behavior?
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Roya Salmanzadeh
2/12/2011 05:49:54 am
Last night, We had a party in my sister‘s house and I decided interview about this subject. Every body thought different and all of my family told true but than them selves look anyway I thought about that and understand that very different in my country because my country people don’t have a job security so they can’t be honest, they smile to you but think another thing in their mind and they are kind with people and work very fast for people but they wanted more money than that one. I believe that family that grow up and rule enacted by a country are really important about good and bad behaviors. My family and my friends were good behaviors. My father always told me you work truthfully with all of the people and don’t slack off and be polite depositary because all of adjectives help to you in work and your life that be successful so, I think good behaviors to show up on time, be polite and kind and sincere and important at work and move you be have good the move you improve in your career and the least I think in life it is important to have good job behaviors to support one selfand family. Have a great weekend.
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Olga T. ESL L 40
2/12/2011 08:58:22 am
Good and bed behavior: - it is clear for every one what those are mean and every one has their own examples for both of those words. But when the time come to chose the right thing, one can behave bad and still assume that hi or she is doing the right thing .We all came from different parts of world and each one of us look at things differently .It is hard to be a good example for your kids when you know what is going on around you, and you are living with a fear that sooner or later they will not listen you any way. Most of them will assume that you are old fashioned and will grow up with their own understanding of a world they live in. So there is nothing we can do about it because it takes a lot of power to change the society .I have a lot of friends, some of them have a bad influence on me …..! Well at least I can tell when they do …!!!But no meter what I keep list of things than I should not do .It helps me to stay on track and with each step moves me closer to my goal .!!!
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George G
2/12/2011 09:14:03 am
In a short phrase I would say that good behavior is to follow the rules. I do not know other religions and do not want to offend anyone but the Christian religion, the 10 commandments are a good example. Do not steal, do not lie, not to kill, to respect your parents, do not hurt anyone ... ......... If you follow this ... your behavior is good
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Vira Golik
2/12/2011 09:56:32 am
For me bad behavior is when a person is into alcohol, drugs, and smoking. These are some very bad habits that a person can have and they are hard to get rid of. Also it is bad behavior when you are talking and someone interrupts you. It is also very bad manners. It is very bad behavior when a kid sits on cold surfaces outside during the winter season. I also think that its bad behavior when a person does not take their shoes off when they walk into a home. That is also very bad manners. So those were some examples of bad behavior and here is some of good behavior. I think it is good when a person has manners like not talking when their mouth is full and saying please and thank you. Also it is good behavior when a kid obeys his/her parents. That will lead to good manners when they will grow up. One last thing that I count as good behavior is when a person is kind to everyone who they meet no matter how different they are. So that was my opinion on good behavior like manners and bad behavior like being into alcohol, drugs, and smoking.
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Ali Khatibi
2/12/2011 11:27:52 am
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Lyudmyla Matviychuk
2/13/2011 07:26:39 am
Families have children. Parents must remember that behavior of their babies begin from birth. A good upbringing depends from family. Family brings responsibility for kids, it with love gives good behavior. Mother and father must spend maximum time with child, to read books, to tell stories, to go to the park to be with friends and relatives, to go to church. After that they will get good results. Parents are happy when their children are good, wise, intelligent, etc. "Crown for parents is their behaved children. We can see badly behaving people. Badly behaved children for their parents, are as rotting in their bones. I think nobody wants to see their own legacy badly.
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Siarhei D.
2/13/2011 07:28:41 am
The concept of good behavior appeared a long time ago and, therefore, it has very much great value presently.
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Iurii K.
2/13/2011 08:38:20 am
Behavior... Good or bad depends of what do we think about that. Everybody has different morality that's why one person can not afford more than the others.
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Liudmila A
2/13/2011 08:47:21 am
In the beginning we have to know. What does it mean behavior? The dictionary explains ”the actions or reactions of persons or things under specified circumstances”, but the manner could be good or bad, how can we know his/her manner good or bad, to see his/her reactions. Usually we see to reaction of person and we’ve been saying about that he/she has a good or bad behavior. Actions parents really do speak louder than words. Parental role helps teach children to be caring, kind, polite, honest and respect. Parents play an important role to raise their children. Of course everything around influences us, but we always have to be careful in our thought, because it become to our reactions. They was a good friends, whenever we have a problem, we’re try to help each other. We’re tried to respect each one. I don’t remember about bad behavior my friends, because usually they are very well .
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Tetyana D.
2/13/2011 09:13:04 am
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JIMMY LL
2/13/2011 10:25:39 am
First of all our behavior is very important.I Think our behavior put us in different level of society,if you have good behavior you are going to be in higher level,if not you are down.For example you can be the smartest person in the company,but if you have bad behavior you are out,otherwise having a good behavior and being a good worker you can be the president of the company,so the real behavior begins into the house since you are a child,if the person took care of you with good behavior chances are that you are going to have good behavior too.Eventhough is the real responsible for oneself,you can be with people with good or bad behavior but it is really up to oneself to make a choice,although 85 percent of people let another people make decisions for them,it is good to ask for options but the final decision is on oneself.
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Deenjalba Bolormaa
2/13/2011 11:54:06 am
ESLL 40
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Nameer Ali
2/13/2011 12:05:06 pm
Love to your brother what you love to yourself
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Valentina Pinzari
2/13/2011 12:10:43 pm
I think that good behavior is when somebody listens and respects some one.Bad behavior is when somebody doesn't listen to some one else and talking back.Parents could teach good manners by being an example to some one else.A person could make good choices by thinking at what they are doing and correcting the mistakes that they did.
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Alfredo M
2/13/2011 12:37:31 pm
Alfredo M
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Myagmarsuren Munkhzul
2/13/2011 12:40:59 pm
ESLL 40
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Andrey S
2/13/2011 12:46:09 pm
We can see a lot of good behavior when we look around. For example, good behavior is opening a door for someone and holding it. Another example of a good behavior is abiding to the rules, such as no loud noise after 10 or “No Smoking Area”. There are many other examples of good behavior. Good behavior is shown when we say “hello” to the people we know. Good behavior is also shown on the road when we drive. When there is an older person we can give them a seat or help them out. These are all examples of good behaviors. Unfortunately, there is also a lot of bad behavior around us too. We can sometimes hear people using bad words in the public or getting impatient when they are in-line. Other examples of bad behavior would be youth not showing respect to older people and not listening to their parents. As a child, I tried my best to listen to my parents and show good behavior. It was very important to my parents to teach me good behavior. Parents can teach good behavior by showing an example of their behavior. Actions speak louder than words. A person can make good choices by listening to advices. The behavior that is not acceptable is the behavior that is bad. It is being rude, inconsiderate, and impolite. The behavior that is acceptable is the good behavior. It is when you are nice and polite. My friends generally had good influence on me because they showed good behavior and I tried to pick good friends.
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Mohammed J
2/13/2011 01:22:53 pm
Behavior is the manner of acting or controlling your self towards other people. The good behavior is how to listen to your parents and the elderly people and respect everyone around you if he is older or younger it doesn't matter, because you expect the same. The bad behavior is back talking them and not listening to them and the other people. I was very well behaved when I was a child and all the neighbors were very nice to me cause I was very well manner and never talk back to them when they see my parents they tell them “you have a very well manner child”, “and keep up the good work”.The parents can teach their children how good manners are by teaching them to respect others and to be very nice and the help them when they need help. The acceptable behavior are listening to others advices and respect people. The unacceptable behavior are the apposite the acceptable behavior. I had a good influence with most of my friends they were respecting me, helping me and they never back talked about me and I did the same to them. And I had only two bad influence with two of my friends, the first one he needed my help and I was helping him but at the same time I heard that he was back talking about me very bad when I asked him why you are doing that, he didn't care. The second one he was my best friend, when I told him about that he turned against me and he believed him. And I never did anything about what they said.
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Manuel Becerra
2/13/2011 01:46:50 pm
I think that the most important part of a good behavior is when in my home i show my and give my family examples of good values. For example, saying goodmorning and goodnight and making that a part of your day. Also saying please and thank you. Something else i am a strong believer in is manners, for example at the table, not eating with your mouth open or talking with your mouth full. Being helpful and picking up after yourself and not only that but helping even if it is not yours. Being neat at home, having your home presentable, making your bed everyday so when people come we greet them and they can feek comfortable in my house. When my family and I, work together and we do all of these things we give examples to our children to do the same and have respect and good behavior.
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Sviatlana. Z
2/13/2011 02:23:20 pm
In my opinion, good behavior is when a person is polite, without bad habits, and using appropriate words. Also, good behavior is when a parents show good example to their kids. In contrary, bad behavior is when disrespectful, ignoring others, or even screaming on others. When I was a child I was good enough. I am the youngest child in the family and in my teen age I was a little bit spoiled. However, I have very nice parents who treated me very good. They not only say to me what I was supposed to do, but their life was a good example to me. I think should explain to children what is good or bad and why it is good or bad. To teach good manners parents should do it by themselves. For example, they should bath the kids every day and brush teeth to their kids. In addition to doing that, parents should explain of bad effect if they won’t take a shower or won’t brush teeth. When a person knows what is good and what is bad then, he will make right decision. Behavior is acceptable when a person obeys the law; if there is a sign “No Smoking”, it means “No Smoking” and so on. Personally me, I have only very good friends, who I can trust to and they have only good influence on me.
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Lyudmila D.
2/13/2011 02:24:26 pm
Good behaviors are a very important in life. Good behaviors should be instilled in a child at an early age so that when they grow it will be natural, and not a problem.Cultural traditions play an important role in manners, as do religious beliefs, social status, and economic class. Good behaviors are respect and deference to people who are older, as well as people who hold senior positions of authority. Good behaviors are extremely important in life, in school and the workplace. Manners and etiquette make a huge difference when it comes to finding a job. People in this world would be unable to communicate between anyone without good manners.
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Vladislav C.
2/13/2011 02:47:55 pm
Good behavior is when you greet people, come to appointments on time, not throwing away trash out of your car window while driving. In college you sit quietly, talk in English only, respect other people. That's good behavior.
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Sima S.
2/13/2011 02:50:28 pm
Good behavior is when a person has good etiquette. A good person will act good even when with other people. When you are helpful and nice. Bad behavior, it's the opposite where you screm, when you're not thankful, when you don't greet people, and don't thank people.
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Olga Ca
2/13/2011 03:26:20 pm
Good behavior is when a person has a good deeds, always tries to the right thing and accept the rules they give you. When I was a child my father always taught me to obey and know how to respect older people; do not forget to say hello and always give thanks. Arriving at school or elsewhere always on time. When my family and I went to lunch and dinner, reminded us to wash our hands. My dad helped us with homework and liked that our books are clean and tidy. Also my sister and I helped to clean our house. I think all this helped me a lot, because now that I'm an adult I still enjoy good things my dad taught me, for example I have a lot respect for older people, try to be on time for my doctor appointments. I like being very organized in my house.
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Pavel K.
2/13/2011 03:48:21 pm
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Dmitriy A.
2/14/2011 10:57:12 pm
Bad behavior, is when child has bad manners and disobeys his parents. Good behavior, is when child has good manners and obeys parents. I guess you can say I was a hybrid between the too, mostly good though. Parents can teach kids good manners through bed time stories. A person should be taught from childhood to make good choices in life. A good attitude is acceptable behavior. Ill manners is not acceptably behavior, in most cases. My friends almost never had influence on me.
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Nelya T.
2/15/2011 03:20:55 pm
ESSL 40
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Stepan M
2/20/2011 02:32:59 pm
Good behavior is when a person act in a good way, has good morals, is polite and nice. Bad behavior is opposite of good behavior being rude, impolite, having bad morals. I think that I was a well-behaved child. Teaching good manners a parent need to be very motivated and love his kids. A parent needs to be very patient and gave the best answer, time and explanation for his kids. A parent needs to love his kids and not to spoil them. Making a good choice is first of all the result of good thinking, and some bad experience, or some good advice. I don’t think my friends influenced me too much, maybe sometimes when I was so eager to do something and I wasn’t paying any attention on others advices. But I’m glad I’ve experienced that because a person can understand better good behavior, good morals only after passing through bad ones. All behaviors are acceptable at the right moment and situation. Everybody knows that bad behavior are bad, but still without them things are not perfect.
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Igor Kirbabin
2/26/2011 05:02:12 am
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Maryna Kirbabina
2/26/2011 05:03:41 am
I think that good behavior is better than bad behavior. Good behavior is all the good qualities and actions in a person. It comes from heart. It is when a person is kind, has nice manners, and acts politely. It is very nice to know that someone cares for you. Good people, individuals with good behavior, are always nice to have in life. They are always going to be there for you, through thick and thin. Good manners are a sign of good behavior, for example, when they say “thank you”, open the doors for you, and say please; doesn’t that just sound nice? Anyways I really enjoy being around people who are very polite and kind. Imagine that everyone was good behaved and well mannered, wouldn’t lives be much easier and nicer. Good behavior lets the people around you to know what kind of a person you really are. If you are well behaved, I think, it will always benefit you in life. You will get more opportunities, can get a nice job and meet very interesting people. Although not everyone is respectful and polite, the once that are, have a better chance to be successful and actually do something in life. That’s my opinion about good behavior.
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