Do you agree or disagree with finding a friend, husband or wife across the continent online? Why, or why not?
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Ruslan Po
8/24/2010 02:49:04 pm
I agree with finding a friend across the continent online, but somewhat disagree with finding a husband or wife across the continent. It possible to find a friend online because there is no physical contact or it is not necessary for friendship to survive. Most of the time, friends come and go out of your life. Meaning if you don’t like something about your friend and can’t work it out between the two of you, there is no obligation to keep that friend. However, when you look for a husband or wife, it is a whole different story. There are emotions involved, need to have physical contact, and other things needs to be present.
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Yuki m
8/24/2010 06:36:37 pm
I disagree with finding a friend or spouse with internet. And it will led them to bad end.
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Tatyana K.
8/25/2010 08:48:21 am
People more and more spend time on the internet lately. In our days, instead of going to the theater, having friends over, or going to the beach people rather spend time watching TV or using the internet. Lack of a good relationship with friends and relatives, even family members, people try to replace with communication through the Internet, with unknown people. I’m absolutely convinced that you can not find a good friend and especially a spouse across the continent online. In my opinion, those kind of people are not successful in life or relationships. Why would you want a loser as your spouse? Since you haven’t met them in person, it could be anyone. It can be a criminal or a married guy who may be cheating on his wife. Anyway it’s hard to know someone without looking in his eyes, listening how he talks, seeing what he is wearing, or looking at his behavior. Keeping a relationship with unknown people or giving them private information could be risky and unsafe for you. Of course, you can make your own decisions on how to look for a friend, what way to choose, or how to communicate with your girlfriend/boyfriend. Using the internet is probably an inexpensive way to communicate with your girlfriend. You don’t have to spend money on flowers or in a restaurant; you don’t even have to drive a car. You don’t have to dress up to go on a date, just sit in your sleepy pants by a computer and use the keyboard. It is really not a problem to find friends in real life; people are usually nice and open to communication. For example, in parks responsible moms always find what to talk about, in college students have the same goals: to pass the class and it makes people closer to each other; even in stores someone can ask you advice about the product. Relationships can happen anywhere.
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Alena P
8/25/2010 04:34:20 pm
In this World people spend a lot of time on internet.It`s best way to do many things.Also you can find friends on internet too.I`m agree it`s a good way . Internet erased border between countries and continents . I`m find my old friends, my classmates,my teachers and new friends online .It`s always easy way for meet some people and find good friends and it is best way for communication .You only send a message at all .In the meantime you can do other things .On internet you find friends by interests or hobby .For example I find people who interesting Arts and people who interesting music. But if you wont find husband or wife I think it`s not serious and good idea .It is my opinion . The best result for starting relations between men and women it meet face to face . It is so nice. I think it`s need to be chemical reaction between each other .You need hear her or his voice , see face , feel odor .So,some people finding fun online.They play with feeling to other people who trying to find love or family .You can be deceived and you can find some problem with it.You never know who on other line,who write to you.It can be old grandma or teenager , or some sick people .Although I have one example . My sister in low find love of her life on internet .Hi is from Kiev, Ukraine,now they live in US and has twins and they are happy. But it is only exception to the rules . Also I hear too much different stories with bad end, it is sad .My advise for people meeting each others on real life and no illusion on this point .
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Aynalen NI
8/26/2010 06:26:03 am
Do you agree or disagree with finding a friend , husband ,or wife online?
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Veronica C
8/26/2010 07:02:42 am
Every person has his own life. Somebody is successful in a career but doesn’t have any personal life, somebody works hard, studies in the same time and doesn’t have a personal life either. That’s way many people in these day believe that internet is a good way to find a friend, a husband or wife.
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Aynalem NI
8/26/2010 07:15:38 am
Do you agree or disagree with finding a friend , husband ,or wife online?
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Bénédicte C.
8/26/2010 08:32:25 am
I agree with finding a friend on the Internet. Nowadays, we use more and more Internet. We use it to search information, to buy clothes, … It is easy to form links, to find someone who has the same hobbies and interests. These relationships can be going to a happy friendship. If you like an author, by example Harlan Coben, you can meet fans of this author on a website dedicated to him. But I think, even if your relationship on Internet is great, you have to meet this friend to know if you friendship is true. Moreover, on Internet, there are a lot of liars. They can hide their true identity. You are never sure to speak with the real person. And also spend all your time on the Internet with your “virtual” friends is not good, that separate you of the real world and the real persons.
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victor s
8/26/2010 09:11:04 am
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Danyyil M
8/27/2010 01:44:53 am
I agree that it is possible to meet new friends or even love through social network. I know one couple that met each other online. The guy is from Germany, named Heinz and the girl, whose name is Anna from Russia. They started to communicate and then send pictures to each other, and fell in love. Heinz flew to Russia to visit Anna and proposed her. Next day Anna met Heinz with her parents and Heinz said to Anna’s parents that he wanted to married their daughter. Soon Heinz and Anna got married. After the wedding they moved to Germany. After few years they had a baby, but Heinz was selfish. He was careless towards his son and cared more about his dog. He didn’t want to give money to his wife to buy anything for their baby, for example: dippers, clothes, baby bath, etc…One day his wife told him to go to the store and buy a baby bath for their son. Heinz went to the store and saw a dog house he really liked, so he bought it and went home with a dog house instead of the baby bath. When he came home and his wife asked him if he bought the bath for his son and he said “no, because they didn’t have baby bath in that store, so you have to wash the baby in the sink.” The next day Anna went to that store to see if they had baby bath because she didn’t believed him. When she got to the store she saw that they were selling baths and she got really mad that her husband was lying to her and that he cares more about his dog then his family. After that she never believed him because he was always lying to her. After all bad moments she noticed that he doesn’t care about his family at all but only his dog. Then they get divorced. I think that finding love in real is more secure than finding online.
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Yelena Gr
8/27/2010 08:21:58 am
Our world today is very fast and busy. We can't imagine our life without cars and
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Olga Tymoshenko
8/27/2010 09:00:16 am
Hi.I'm Olga Tymoshenko.I disagree with finding a husband/wife online because I think that it's inappropriate to meet someone online like that.Also,i do agree that you can meet a FRIEND online...but not a husband/wife.If you want to meet a husband/wife ONLINE then, you should meet each other in person..
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Vasylysa M.
8/27/2010 09:29:38 am
Presently the majority of people use the Internet to communicate with friends, parents, brothers, sisters, husband and wife. At each objectives of dialogue. Personally I spend plenty of time behind a computer and almost every day I communicate with friends which live in other countries, dialogue with them helps me to be more friendly. I agree that people found themselves friends by means of the Internet but I do not strongly agree that people found themselves husband or wife. In this of situations there are two sides. I saw a situation of my friend, it has got acquainted with the boy after the Internet, they have started to communicate then in couple of weeks of dialogue they have decided to meet. When they have met they have liked each other. So they have started all to communicate and meet more often, time passed when they already have learned each other better. Then he made a proposal of marriage and they got married, and now they live very happy. But there are also situations when the end happens sad. My opinion that people which begin dialogue through the Internet cannot be long in that kind of a relationship, while they will not see each other When they already have met face to face, only then the person can feel what that person is like. Everyone have their own choice, all people are different. There are situations when people meet in an actual life but then they don’t live well, there are people which all time communicated by means of the Internet both then live cheerfully and have a good day. I think it all depend the person.
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Elvia M
8/27/2010 09:46:16 am
I just think, you can find friends and love anywhere at anytime, on lime, pating is not the exemption.
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Jenny M
8/27/2010 03:40:22 pm
I am agreeing with finding a friend across the continent online; but I am disagreeing with finding a spouse across the continent online and there are many reasons.
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8/27/2010 08:44:12 pm
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Nataliya No
8/28/2010 04:03:01 am
I am very like meeting and finding a people on online.I agree with finding a friend online,but I disagree with finding a husband or wife.Because in my opinion friends it is not very important for my life.If I find a good friend it is good.If I find not good friend it is doesn't matter,I can find another,and for all my life,Ican exchange many friends.But husband or wife is going to be for all my life.I won't change a husband. In my opinion,when you looking for a boyfriend or girifriend and then you want to get married successful you should meet people in real life.Because in real life you can know more about people than online. I know bad example my youger aunt.She lives in USA,Yourk.She found a boyfriend online.He is live in Ukraine.They had friendship almost two years online.Then they decided get married.My aunt bought many presents for him and him family and went.When they meeting in real life he was looking bad,he was on disability,he couldn't work.His parents were unfriendly people.Then they met a few moments and she don't like him.She went to America which no him.She was very very unhappy. So,in my opinion,you can meet people online only for friendship.You can find a classmates,relatives,who live in other countries.We have many different sites,for example facebook.On facebook Ifound my relatives.I never saw them in life,only my parents talked about them.It is was big surprise for me. My advance for people meet husband or wife in real life.It is more successful.I met my husband in real life in Ukraine and get married five years ago.I have a nice husband and two beautiful daughters and I'm very very lucky and happy.So,I agree with finding a friend on the internet,but I disagree with finding husband or wife.
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Mark Kharatov
8/28/2010 07:47:59 am
I fully support that finding friends through the Internet is a good idea. I think that to find good friends online is real. For example, I have many friends online. I have never seen them. We live thousands miles from each other. But I like to communicate with them. I like to spend my time with them. Most of them are very interesting and well-educated people. Only the Internet is a best opportunity to communicate with them. You can communicate at the same time with several of your friends. Besides this communication is absolutely safe for you because you can not reveal your address and other personal data. One more good point that failure to communicate brings less unpleasant emotions than it would occur face to face.
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Laura M
8/28/2010 07:51:41 am
I agree with finding a friend and maybe your husband or wife for internet across
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Laura M
8/28/2010 08:08:51 am
I agree with finding a friend and maybe your husband or wife for internet across
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natan demesse
8/28/2010 08:13:13 am
Natan De ESLW-40 8/28/10 3:06 PM Do you agree or disagree with finding a friend, husband, or wife online? Do you know anyone who has done it? Yes I agree I this case it is a wife and I know a friend who found a wife online. It was in the winter of 2007 my roommate Mr. “X” found his lovely wife from Brazil. At first she was just a friend in a chatting room online with thousands of others. After a few months of chatting, talking face to face on a webcam and finding a conmen interest on telephone, they started to like each other. After eight or nine months later my room mate decided to tell her his physical disability, wandering what she would say. After that she can not wait to come and see him. Every thing was up to speed and she arrived in the United States in late summer of 2008. It was the most exciting time and fun for all of us. We all enjoined seeing this couple willing to get to know one another with open minds and hearts. We all went out to nice restaurants, went out shopping, and took road trips to surrounding areas. He bought her earrings,
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Paraskoviya M.
8/28/2010 10:41:46 am
Today more and more people use the Internet to dialogue with friends and for acquaintance with new friends. I agree that people look for friends in other countries with the help of the Internet, but I’m vigorously against for people to look for a partner on a life by the Internet. If we can find ourselves good friends on the Internet and if we will communicate with them not always we can find husband or wife. I think that we risk if we marry people we do not know well. We do not know what are their relationship with their parents we do not know what kind of people surround them, we do not know where and who they go to party, we know nothing but all the same we agree to marry this person. The person with which we communicate might not be a good person and we do not know it. Even if we communicate with that person they would not start telling the negative things about themselves .We cannot see or learn everything about them because we are on far distances. I think that many people in our time start communicating through the Internet then they meet and get married ,but when they have already got married they start learning about each others’ disagreement and then all it reaches divorces. My opinion to whom gets married through the Internet, because it is a very serious step in each person‘s life. I am against for young people to look for a partner in the Internet.
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Trang N
8/28/2010 11:51:52 am
Finding a friend, a husband or wife across continent online is not a very good way to choose.
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fatima hernandez
8/28/2010 12:34:48 pm
In my opinion it depends of each person. Everyone has different ways to find their love. I’ve heard of many stories when many people find their soul mates by the internet and end up getting married. In the other side I think sometimes can be hard to have a relationship with someone that you just see by the computer and you’ve never seen before in person. I think it is better to find someone near you and know how the person is in reality. It is hard to find someone that you can trust but is harder to tell other people that you don’t really know and don’t know their intentions with you. Another reason is because along the way you can realized that the person was not that one you wanted because both of you were race differently of had different customs. Also there’s a difference between finding someone to get married and just a friend. Every day there are many people who surf in the internet to find new friend from around the world. It’s a good way to get to know people, how they think and the different ways to live in other countries. There is other good side of this, surfing in the internet there people whose finding relatives and people they haven’t seen in year. Is also a way to get off away with the people that are around you and get new opinions or ideas from others. In conclusion I don’t agree or disagree with this decision. Everyone can find their love ones in the internet or any place in the world they choose. Internet can be a great opportunity to find friends but is also a dangerous way to trust some one that you want to married.
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Bekmuhamed Sa.
8/28/2010 01:10:48 pm
I agree with finding a friend,husband,wife online.Each of us has even been ascuainted with people and it is unlikely at thise thougth,wetever he is going.Amean while,familiarity is a very important step in futer respect,whetever friendship,business or love.Problemm loneliness is absoluteli relevant almays irrespective of sex and age.The people consider themselves alone,although able to fix psition by making a small step.Suffitsiently remember that world wide online that gave us an excellent opportunity overcome any distance,finding interesting companions,good friends,
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Matvey Kh
8/28/2010 01:23:21 pm
With the Internet we can find a friend from any part of the world, or even a wife or husband. Some people agree and some disagree with this statement. I agree that you can find a good friend through online services. But I think there are some bad things about finding a husband or wife online.
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VachaganDa
8/28/2010 03:44:40 pm
I agree with finding a friend, husband or wife online. I think it's about as good as any other medium for dating and meeting people, but you do have to be an open minded person and be aware. In my opinion, a lot of people are online because they need to be, and a lot of people are online because they want something on the side. But then again, nobody marries the first person they meet in a bar either, so you'd just have to be patient if you want to keep going with it. My opinion is that it can be good for those people that don't have enough confidence to find dates face to face. I don't think it’s desperate. It can also bring together people with similar interests. I guess it will work for some people and others it won’t. I know someone who met their partner online and now they are happily married .Also I know this another girl who found her boyfriend online. She says that the internet is a big part of everybody's life today and it's really not uncommon to meet people online. I think that it pays to be careful about who you are talking to because there will be people who take advantage of you, I guess that applies to all sorts of life situations. But with online dating there can be anyone online that are pretending to be something they're not. Good luck to those people who are still finding a wife or husband online.
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ChangMin Han
8/28/2010 03:49:08 pm
I don't agree with finding a friend, husband or wife across the continent online.
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Lyudmyla Ya.
8/28/2010 05:01:19 pm
We live in the time when computerization is in very big progress. Many people have a chance to use computer and Internet. Internet gives very big possibility for every person to be associate with each other.
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Armine Ga
8/28/2010 05:15:54 pm
I agree with finding a friend, husband, or wife online. I think that the internet is a big part of our life. Nowadays you can pretty much do anything online so might as well, why not dating people? It also depends in what situation you are in. For example if you are working all day and you don't have enough time, or you have lack of confidence then I think that dating people online is definitely the best way to go because you don't meet people face to face or . You can also find someone that has the same interests as you. Online dating can also be a little scary at first. You are jumping onto a website and sharing yourself with thousands and sometimes millions of other people. On one hand online dating can be a fun experience and the other hand it could be dangerous. For example you don’t want to put your information down and meet someone right away. Or you have to be aware of those weirdoes and perverts because they are all over the internet. I know a girl who met her husband online and they have been married for three years now. She recommends people who have not tried yet or want to try. For some people online dating is successful and for others it’s not. Another cool thing about online dating is that you can find your future wife or husband in just minutes. Recently I found my classmate on a site. I am really happy that I got a chance to communicate with her again in my life time. Overall online dating is great if you are just looking for a friend, husband, or wife.
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Oksana P.
8/28/2010 07:50:39 pm
My life is a very interesting. I have many friends.They are a very beautiful people.I do not agree with finding a friends,husband or wife online.Because, I like to acquaint with people in the church, market,park,in the college because,I can to see them.For example, online the people can to speak that they are a good people.They can to conceal one's true name and to conceal one's bad habits. I have a friends in Ukraine.I communicate with them by e-mail,but I acquainted with them not online.I am happy that I have many friends in Ukraine and America.We are very friendly.My mom says: the best to have one hundred friends,than one hundred dollars.This is true.I am not married. But I want to acquaint with my future husband not across computer.Because, I want to see him.For example,I want to know,he is tall or short.What color his hair,eyes?So,or he is a good men. I know many stories about people that they acquainted and seeked friends, husband or wife online.This stories finished on a sad(badly).For example,my friend acquainted wit one's husband online.They had a very beautiful wedding.Them friends wished good luck for them.But,after wedding they lived together only two months and to started problems.Many years ago,when people didn't have computers,but they had friends, a good husbands and a good wifes.So they was happy.Maybe,to acquaint with a new people online is not bad, but this is a very rarely.
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Salam AB
8/28/2010 08:09:24 pm
Personally, I disagree with finding a husband or wife online. Why? Because I think when people want to get married, they have to choose their lovers carefully, because your going to live with this person forever,so you want to be sure that the person your are engaging with is the real person that you know. This is my opinion and it's limited with as far as my culture goes, Because in some cultures it's very normal for people to get divorce when just because they are unhappy with each other, and I do respect all the other cultures,but what I'm saying it depends on the peoples. By the way I don't know any one who has done this before,but I had heard and seen many peoples doing this on TV shows,and I remember the first months of their marriage were perfect.I didn't know what happened with them after these months, because logically TV shows can't cover all the peoples' days live.
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Kevin H
8/28/2010 08:16:50 pm
In fact i think its impossible to get marrry with someone if you know her by internet... Internet is a virtual think, it's good to research, music, movies, e-mail, or maybe to make some friends, but not for find the love. Internet is not a romantic things so it's not my thing ! You can't kiss a girl by internet, you can't feel her. That look
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Serhiy Ve
8/29/2010 03:58:54 am
I agree with finding a friend, husband or wife via Internet. Without any doubt, this is a great service for individuals that are introverted or shy and that’s why they are able to get to know other people without actual meeting them in the reality right away. Besides, this is quite hard and difficult for those individuals that are really shy to go out and meet some people, thus it is really a fantastic way to get to know some other individuals. People that really believe in finding a soul mate, should just think over what better and proper chances they are going to have of finding their soul mate online. She or he can live not in same city and even in country where they actually reside in, but the chance to meet him or her is much better nowadays when we really have online dating web sites.
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Kim Nguyen
8/29/2010 05:24:42 am
Although i do not agree with finding a friend through the internet, some of my friends have so i guess it is true. It depends on who the person is and how they deal with relationships. For the shy people that do not enjoy going out to meet new people, it is good for them to meet their loved ones online where they can slowly meet each other. Even though they do not live in the same place, they can meet up and have a good time together. I like how i can chat with people online because it makes us closer. My friends that live in vietnam can webcam with me and we can see eachtoher through that rather than not seeing eachother for a really long time. Online interactions can help people alot.
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Tayana S.
8/29/2010 07:08:27 am
I agree with finding friends, husbands or wife across the continent online. In this time meet people by internet is very popular. There are a lot of reasons for that. People are busy working, studying at school or university. Do to luck of free time people are less associated, everyone is up to his own business. Not everyone is lucky enough to meet their a future half in life. Many people are lonely. Every person research their happiness on the internet instead living a real life, they live in the internet with which fill their free time. There are many advantages and disadvantages on the internet. For example, if you are lucky, you meet a special person. Everyday chatting on internet make you are less lonely. You can meet each other in the future, but a chance to fall in love is very limited. The meeting people trough the internet much different that meeting in the real life. The chatting is more mysterious, person can look another that you expected. The person might not be attracted or you might not like his hobbits, expressions, gestures, behaviors. Most of the time, people show only the best photos or the best side of their personality on the internet. My personal experience shows, that all of my friends I met were from school, college, or work. However, I know people, that met each other by the internet has a good relationship now. Life is mystical, beautiful, surprised. You never know, what you will have in the future. It is perfect that the people want to communicate and be socialized, and believe in their success.
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Anaam Jassim
8/29/2010 07:31:39 am
I disagree to finding wife / husband through the internet even friends but maybe in some situations you need to find friend you need to talk with or to finish any work you start doing it , but to find husband / wife this is different situation because I believe the relationship is more important than the friendship ,if you married you going to start to make new life (real life ) which is need to be good from every side to keep this marriage and keep living in happiness .
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Bekmuhamed Sa.
8/29/2010 09:59:50 am
I agree with finding a friend,husband or wife. Each of us has even been asguainted with people and is anlikely at thise thought,whetever he is doing.A mean while,familiarity is a very important step in future respect,whetever friendship,business or love.Problemm loneliness is absolutely relevant always irrespective of sex and age.The people concider themselves alone,althought able to fix position by making a small step.Sufficiently remember that worldwide online that gave us an excellent opportunity overcome any distance, finding interesting companinons, good friends, business partners, husbond ar wife from all over the wworld. Online help in this difficult mother. Resolve to ecplore on the street can a small amount the people. Welcome to introduction to the parties rarely ends with a good friendship or relationshop. Why them, to forment themselves, waiting for the apportune moment, when you have more correct method. Use modern technology to prosses dating, is not hard, not like one more onto dating to next of people omong who will definitely find a cuple of intersiting interlocutors. Today you can learn about a person in advance with sufficient information to decide, to answer his feelings ar not learn the interests of future companion, look at his picture, perhaps he or she will share the footage for the presentation.
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Levon Na
8/29/2010 02:27:01 pm
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yoann d
8/29/2010 03:03:28 pm
Even if I think that there is not an only way to find friends or a wife/husband, finding relationships on the internet is not the best for me.
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Lindsay F
8/29/2010 03:14:57 pm
ESLW40 Do you agree or disagree with finding a friend, husband, or wife online? (Do you know anyone who has done this?)
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Tina Sh.
8/29/2010 04:10:30 pm
Do I agree or disagree with finding a friend, husband or wife across the continent online? Why, or why not?
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Minghi K
8/29/2010 04:33:15 pm
Quite a lot of things can do over the internet. We can shop, work and even make friends at home instead of going somewhere else. In addition, you might find your future husband or wife. Therefore, I agree with finding a friend, husband, or wife in online for the following reasons.
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Toan n
8/30/2010 08:08:34 am
I agree with finding a friend, husband or why across the continent with many reasons. First of all, have you ever make friend by online. I have a lot of friend online such as on yahoo, facebook. When I’m boring or nothing to do, I usually go online chat with my friends. I talk and share information with them. If I have any problem in work or life, they give me some advices helpful. They help me feel better when I talk each other. My friend visited me last year. He is from Vietnam. We have a good relationship. He is an international student. We help each other. Nowadays finding a wife or husband more popular on the world. We have modern life today. People meet online for work, business… my uncle got marriage last year. His wife is Chinese. First, they just have conversation for work. Then, they share information and understand each other. They fell in love. They decided to marriage. They have a happy family now with a boy. I agree finding a friend, wife or husband by internet. That’s a new way in modern life.
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Marina A.
8/30/2010 02:47:07 pm
A year from a year popularity of acquaintances through the Internet growing.
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Galyna Sh
8/30/2010 04:53:38 pm
I don’t agree finding a husband online; I think it’s not a good thing, because you don’t really know the person. I agree to find just a friend, but not husband .I has a lot of friends. Also I have friends in Ukraine. That is the country where I born.
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Olga Ca
9/4/2010 12:03:25 pm
I disagree with finding a friend, husband, or wife online. Maybe I am an antiquated person, but I don't like it. I think it is better to know him/her personally. I have two daughters, they use the computer and I always tell them to be careful and not to talk to strangers. Sometimes I tell them what I hear in the news and how dangerous it is to chat with a person who you don't know.
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