Did you ever have to make a tough decision? How did it affect your life for better or worse?10/17/2009 Did you ever have to make a tough decision? How did it affect your life for better or worse? Life is about choices; some may bring you success and happiness, some sadness and misery. Often times a choice may shift your life into a completely different direction unexpectedly. You may reach a point where you doubt the choice you've made and try to look for other avenues to reach your goal. In reaching your goal, sacrifices may be necessary especially when changes affect others: family members, spouses or close relatives. Sometimes in your choice, you may be forced to taking side with one over another. Leaving your loved ones for a brighter future may involve heartache and pain, but once once you put your mind to it, nothing seem to stand in your way. Sound and thoughtful choices is beneficial while wrong choices cause nothing but pain and loss. Most of the time it's you who will eventually have to deal with consequences of your choice. Personal choices may only impact the person who makes the choice, but if it's taken for the family or group of people, the affect may be incredible. Has your decision making involved other people? What was the impact did it have on you or people around you? What forced you to make such choice and what was the outcome? Did you have to listen to your heart or mind when making such decision?
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Hao Nguyen
10/18/2009 11:39:35 am
A Tough Choice
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ANOBIS
10/18/2009 04:47:22 pm
Yes I had to make a tough decision.
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Neneng E.N
10/18/2009 04:49:57 pm
Yes I do.
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Tatyana D
10/19/2009 03:27:48 am
Tough Decision
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Tatyana D
10/19/2009 03:35:34 am
Tough Decision
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Ryan Kim
10/19/2009 06:54:27 am
What A Tough Decision.
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Ivan.L
10/19/2009 09:03:41 am
In my opinion every body made or will be making some hard decisions in a life. For me it was hard to leave all my family in the country (Ukraine) that I came from . I got married in 2007 and came to the U.S with my wife. It was so tough decision because I like U.S and always wanted to came here so it was just little hard to make it.
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Ivan.L
10/19/2009 09:04:42 am
In my opinion every body made or will be making some hard decisions in a life. For me it was hard to leave all my family in the country (Ukraine) that I came from . I got married in 2007 and came to the U.S with my wife. It was not so tough decision because I like U.S and always wanted to came here so it was just little hard to make it.
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Yaroslav
10/19/2009 09:09:40 am
Choice
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It is hard for me when I had to choice U.S and VietNam.My aunt and her family live in U.S and my family live in VietNam.My aunt wants me to came live with her,but I don't like to go.I like to live with my parents because I really love them.If I go to the U.S,I may take a long time to see my parents.I told my aunt if she could choos my brother because he wanted to go to America.She was angry,she said if you don't go I never send money to your parents anymore.I was scaried and cried a lot,and after a few days I called my aunt again and told that I's agree to go to the U.S.I knew if I came to the U.S,everything would be hard for me.I need to speak English and work hard.When I've been to the U.S,I was 20 years old.I lived with my aunt for 1 years,then I moved out to live in an apparment.I am a hard working person with no family.I need to do everything by mysefl.A lot of people treated me diffirently because I didn't speak good English.I told mysefl you need to be very strong,it you be shy,people will treated you diffirently foever.So I started scholl to learn more English and now everything is better.I rarely meet my family.I haven't seen my parents in three years and I hope I will visit them very soon.
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Abraham M.
10/20/2009 11:00:46 am
When I got the opportunity to come to the US, I had to leave my family and my friends. It was very sad. I felt like everything fell apart in my life.
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Wenxuan Lv
10/20/2009 11:11:58 am
A Tough Decision
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Michael D
10/20/2009 11:16:17 am
Tougt Decision
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Takeshi NG.
10/20/2009 11:18:55 am
It was hard for me to choose
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S. Park
10/20/2009 11:22:53 am
I made a hard decision before I came here to the United States to study. The first reason that was hard to decide was my life in Korea. There are my parents, my little puppy and all my friends. My first language is Korean and I had used it my whole life. I knew that there were different people whom I didn't know, and they spoke English. I thought my life would change if I came here. The secound reason was money. I knew that everything in the U.S. was more expensive than in Korea. My parents would support me and it might have been a burden on them.
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ivan u
10/20/2009 11:26:16 am
In my life I always had hard time.I often worked in construction in Germany built new homes for my friends.It was a very hard time because for jobs in another country was necessary had visa,and agreement for legal job.
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Yuriy V.
10/20/2009 11:26:23 am
This story of my life happened to me when I was fourteen years old. My family was about to leave my native country, and go to the United States.
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Roman B
10/20/2009 11:27:50 am
Life is giving you a lot of decision takings that you have to think over. You have only one life on Earth and it's better to live it in a good way. Moments in life are very important because that moment that is gone can't be brought back. Once in you life there will be some tough decisions and you have to make it right. When you have one, your life can be changed either in good or bad way. Once when I had to decide on going or not going for trip all over the world with my friends. And my parents didn't want me to go cause it was dangerous. They didn't want me to go because something could happen to me and they were scared not to see me again.That time my mind was busy and I had to think and deside what to do. And I desided not to go.
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suyeon
10/20/2009 11:28:37 am
I am sure that everyone has a tough decisions. In my case,I had a diffcult decision last year. I had two choices. One thing is that I have a chance to study in the U.S. And another thing is that I stay in my country and study. I chose the first one. Because I wanted to live in another country. so I made a decision to came here and study English. Now, I think it's a very good decision. even it's a stressful for me. I think that decision was worth it. In the U.S.,there are many kindly people, my relatives and foriegner freinds. I really hope that I will have a variety activities and good friends.
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Sara O
10/20/2009 11:29:22 am
A tough decision.
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Roberto R.
10/20/2009 11:30:01 am
The blog askme if did I ever have to make a tough decision? and I think yes and a lot of times because always we need to take decisions in every moment of our lives, for example; when you have to choice a school, what kind of clothes you will want to dress, what kind of automobil you will want to drive,etc. But there are just little choices. I try thinking in one situation about choice that bring me success and happiness or sadness and misery, but now in my head im remember a choice that is about happines and that was when im finished my highschool and I had to choice one University and what i wanted to study, and then I choose one University that was so far of my Home and I needed to move there alone for a long time, so that was a great decision and a great choice because with much effort, problems (money, food, live alone,etc.)dedication,compromise and many more things finally I achieve my goal to have my bachelor degree in Sports Marketing after 5 years and after all this time I think that these 5 years were the 5 better years of my life :) becuse I know a lot of friens, I learn a lot of things and I think that the most important was that I learn about me. And like I said, everything that we do is a choice and now Im trying to achieve another goal and that goal is learn English and I hope that in the future had more choices to take.
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Lidia S
10/20/2009 11:30:33 am
Sometimes when I need to take a decision about my life was not easy, before I had have problems with my husband almost we divorce.Sometimes is better separate that live the life miserable. I was feeling my husband didn't care about me and was lie with another lady and many things more.It's is hard but is better for us special when we have kids and the kids don't need to see this situation. My family teach me many virtue and valors I need respect my partner and help each other, but sometimes all is not perfect and we need to live for separate.
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Boyoon.K
10/20/2009 02:46:31 pm
When I was 24 years old, I was a graduate school student. At that time, I wanted to earn money. I didn't want full time job. I wanted part time job. I decided to be a yoga teacher cause I already got yoga teacher licence. First, I found a job at gym but I was so nervous cause I didn't have any kind of carrer. Before the class, I said in my mind "You can do it". But people already knew that I was an amateur. One week later, I was fired. I was a shame. But I got strong mind. 2 weeks later, I got a new job. Now I'm strong and tough. I was changed, was paid 50 dollars in an hour. My class was full with. It was very proud of experience also career in my life.
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Janusz M.
10/20/2009 03:02:26 pm
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nadia s
10/20/2009 06:03:57 pm
This summer I finally got enough of money to reach one of my dreams. All my life I vented to go back to my country but I never saved enough money. But I wanted a new car too. This year I got a very big tax return so my mom told me that she could help me buy a car or I just go too Russia. I had a choice between car and a trip to but I never knew that it will change my live so much. It was an easy choice for me. (Well that what I thought that time) At that time I had my old car so I thought that I can still use it for a while and I chose the trip. But as soon as I bought the ticket I regret it because my car broke the next day. I had no money and I had to go to work. It was in Roseville but I live more than 10 miles away. My live become harder than it was. Right before I left I quit my job. In Russia I had a very good time. I enjoyed every moment there. But when I came back my live took a better turn. This choice changed my live and made me a better person, Because of what I learned throughout my friends in Russia. First I learned how to be happy with what I have, and second if I want something in live I need to reach it because it won’t come to me itself. And now I understand that I made good choice even though I had to struggle.
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Yen V.
10/21/2009 03:18:14 am
I shall never forget the day I made a pretty wrong choice. Since my life changed so much, my dream couldn’t come true and I didn’t carry my promise out to my grandmother. When I was young, I always expected I would become a doctor to treat my parents, grandparent by myself and help poor people. After I graduated from high school, I passed over 3 universities; one of them is a Medical University. Another is a traditional medical university. Two kinds of these I was so confuse because I heard that the Medical school is so hard to study main majors and find a work. The other one is the rarest in my country, so you can have a good job after you graduate. It took 3 weeks for thinking. But no one told me which choice is better. So, I don’t think what I really like to study and what my ability is, I just care about how to get a job easily after graduating. I decided to study traditional medicine. After that, I hated all my majors in the school. All of them couldn’t make me exciting to study, I didn’t believe in my teacher lectures because it isn’t proved by science. It just depends on experience. I spent 6 years and studied without purpose. I couldn’t do well anything. I always got stress of exams because I didn’t spent time to study many majors that I hated. The day I graduated, I didn’t join in my school. I had my friend take my diploma to me. I feel shame every time somebody asks me about my major and my job. I try to find another job but they almost refuse me when they see my degree. I hate the diploma, I hate the major. I hate myself because I spent too much time and finally I have nothing. I have a lesson from that I should do something I truly love rather than do for finding job.
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Hanna
10/21/2009 06:50:03 am
Journal Hanna Z ESLW-310
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Hanna
10/21/2009 07:12:46 am
Hanna ESLG-310
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Paul M.
10/21/2009 10:39:27 am
Everybody have to make a lot of decisions in their lives on a daily basis. There are some decisions that will not have much effect on someone’s life. However, some decisions have life-lasting effects. In my case, when I had a chance to move to the U.S.A., I decided to move although my family and my friends were staying behind. It was one of the hardest and most important decisions that I’ve ever made.
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Viktor K
10/21/2009 11:31:54 am
Everyone at one point in their life had to make difficult decisions. I remember a couple years ago when living in Europe, I had an opportunity to come to United States to study at a college. I started the process of applying to variety of colleges during my last year of high school. After high school graduation, I registered and passed TOEFL test. Also, visa was granted for my studies. But the more I thought about life all alone in a foreign country, mile and mile away from my family, I realized that maybe I should have another thought about it. After a year of hard work and preparations, the door was totally open to leave and start college in another country. It has been very hard to make a decision whether to go or not, knowing that I might miss once in a life time opportunity. At the end I came to conclusion to that it would be better if I stayed home and went to college there. As I realized later, in spite of making such a tough decision, it was smart way to go. A few years later my entire family had opportunity to immigrate to the United States. It was so much easier to adjust to new culture and country with the support your family.
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geahun T
10/21/2009 02:10:49 pm
To move to Sacramento was my biggest decision I made in my life. All my family and my wife’s family, friends lived that time in San Jose. We had a hard time to coup with the living expense in the city. We are four in the family two kids my wife and my self. One summer the manager of my apartment increased the rent by 10% for that year. My wife and me talked on this issue for almost two hours. Suddenly I told her to move somewhere cheaper than San Jose. For some reason Sacramento was my first choice on the list of cities we had. After a week every thing back to normal again, but I still did not like to live in this city charging us lot money for our place. One weekend I convinced my wife to go for two days of vacation to Sacramento. The whole family stayed in the hotel and we drove around the city talked with some people in town. My wife was happy when she saw the surrounding of the city after that we made our decision to move with in the next 6 months. In the middle of nowhere my boss called me at home told me “ I have a good news and a bad news” I said ok, she continued the good news is your request for job transfer is approved, but the bad news is, you have only 45 days to move to Sacramento. I accept the offer and at the same day we told our relatives and friends about our move to Sacramento. They tried to discourage us about moving to Sacramento, but the decision were made already every one we knew told us we are crazy, for some was to let to comment. Finally we packed and moved to Sacramento for good. It was a tough time for the first year my wife did not have a job. We survive the unthinkable journey to the city we did not know any body. I have a very happy family at this time. Always I am really very happy to made that tough choice for my family and my self.
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Pavel F.
10/21/2009 03:24:14 pm
When I had to pick my first car,I looked for everything.It had to have everything how I wanted it to.And one of the most important things in a car for me is nothing other than the color.It might sound silly to some people but it is important for me because I knew the color I choose will be the color I am going to see when I first come up to my car.And when I finally found a perfect one for myself,shortly after I was kind of dissapointed.The reason for that was because it did not have the color I wanted!But about a day after that,one particular car caught my eye and it was white!just how I want it!But I still really liked the other one because it had a very stylish body type.So after thinking and giving it a lot of time I had made up my mind to get the white one.And so far I'm not dissapointed at all.It was a though decision I had to make that time,but I know I've made the right choice.
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Elena.O
10/21/2009 03:31:53 pm
A tough choice.
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YANGKYU K.
10/21/2009 04:31:42 pm
Just one and half years ago, I had to make a big decision. It was a really tough choice for me because it could affect my whole life. At that time I was working as a computer programmer and I was living stable life in Korea. Also my salary was good that time. However I had a hope to come to the USA for studying. I don’t know yet why I had that kind of dream. Almost of my friends wanted stop me coming here, also my family didn’t want it. However I really wanted to come to the USA, in the finally I persuaded my family successfully. I quit my job before I got the plane just three days ago. It was really the biggest choice in my life. I don’t know yet how it affects me for better or worse. However I can say that I throw away all comfortable things, in order to come true my hope. Maybe I really wanted to experience adventurous life in another country. Anyway if I didn’t come to the USA, I would regret that in my whole life about my choice. Now I have no choice, so only I have to do my best to make my choice to be better.
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Yevgeniy.S.
10/21/2009 06:18:41 pm
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D.guevara
10/21/2009 10:48:46 pm
I came to The United States in 2001, just for vacation. And went back to my country and came back to the United States in 2003. I don’t know but the day when I said good bye to mi sister, Ingrid I knew I wasn’t going back to Venezuela for some reason even though I was coming for an other Vacation. In October 2003 I met my husband in a restaurant in Elk Grove and we fall in Love since the first moment we saw each other.
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Abraam
10/22/2009 10:14:10 am
Making decisions which are connected with job problems are difficult to make. I had to make a few tough decisions in the past. In my previous job, every day I went to work while my workplace were hell for me. There were horrible people there I was forced to choose to quit, and find another job, but I didn't have the opportunity to get another job immediately, so I chose to attend to school.
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Claudia G
10/22/2009 10:50:17 am
I don't have too many experiences choosing something over another.
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Andrii L
10/22/2009 10:50:51 am
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SARA
10/22/2009 10:53:03 am
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Beatrice S.
10/22/2009 10:56:00 am
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Dora
10/22/2009 10:58:06 am
Was a Though
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nataliya
10/22/2009 10:59:43 am
In our life everyone to make a choice Sometimes it is a good choice,but sometimes it can be a mistaken.When we came to this country,my main goal was to get a job. In my native country,i worked in the Alteration, so I was looking for the same job in my proffession.I applied for a lot of jobs, and at the same time I got all of them in different Alterations.I chose one of them, and Iam very satisfied.It is a good job, there are many good friends and boss.
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Daniel G.
10/22/2009 11:09:33 am
Tough Choices.
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bella N
10/22/2009 11:14:31 am
I don't want choice live in US but. Every body want come to US not easy.So with me it very easy.I dont like live here because my family live in VN. Now i very tired.Every time i sad i cry alone, i cant talk with my friend because they are very buzy. I want talk with my farent but they dont understand life here. So they told me US live better, i dont need anything but i want my farent understand me.So now i feel not good i usually stress.
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qin wang
10/22/2009 11:15:53 am
I made diffcult choice in 2003. I had a nice job in china , I worked docter office ,I did accupuncture help people some place problems like shouler , back ,and legs ect , I enjoyed my job . But I love to try new things. One day , I watched the news about American , like medical benetifes ,beautiful houses ,nice care ect , I thought that for two months then I made a big and diffcult choice ,I had to go to American try different things .
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viktor s
10/22/2009 11:17:05 am
Every person in his or her life sometimes make a certain decision, on which depends ones future.
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Stepan K
10/22/2009 11:18:07 am
I had a good life in my country.Ilived with my parents and two sisters.Iworked hard in the construction company.Every evening our family got together after work and talked to each other about our day.In 2007,Iwon Green Card and I had to choose beetwen my family and an uncertain future in the U.S.A.I chose the second choice,and I had very hard time in my life in this country and culture.Sometimes my friends with whom I used to live for three mounts didn't understand me.I was ready to buy ticket and go back to my country.I have to work every day,and at night study English in College,but God doesen't live me alone.He helps me with everything.This hard time made me stronger and taught me how to live in this World.
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valentina F
10/22/2009 11:19:09 am
It was hard to me,when I decided to come here to the USA.I was scared of moving to another country,where everything was unknoun to me. But it was one of a right decision and I never felt bad about it.
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Tham L
10/22/2009 11:23:41 am
I have taken many tough decisions in my life. But one of the most important that I had to take was when I decided go abroad to study in America. In here, I don't have family, friends, and everything that I had in VietNam. I want to study in America, but I don't speak and understand English very well. First, I had difficulties here. For example, I did everything by myself such as going out, eat and drink, and speaking English. I come here for two months. I feel everything is going to be ok.
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Hanna Ch.
10/22/2009 11:26:01 am
Life is interesting, but sometimes it is very hard.Everyone is making decisions which are connectsd with any plans that they have for future. One of the hardest choices that I've made in my life,was to leave my son in other country.I think about him every day.He is 27 years old. But I believe that he will be here in Desember.This is happy for me.
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Sojung L.
10/22/2009 02:01:52 pm
A tough choice that I made was to come to America for studying.
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Ehsan
10/22/2009 02:35:36 pm
One of the hardest decisions in everyone’s life is when they want to immigrate to
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Lyudmila D.
10/22/2009 04:19:14 pm
The Tough Choices
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Siarhei D.
10/22/2009 04:23:51 pm
A Tough Choice
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soheila
10/25/2009 02:01:38 pm
through out my life,I have made many tough choices that impact on my life ineither ways for better and worse. The most important one was ,when I decieded to married and move to the United States.It was a tough decisions to me to leave my family,but it came to mind that how do I want to live? what does matter to me?what are my values?Do I want to continue my education?. In spite of the difficulty I had in Iran.for example, if you want to continue you education for higher level ,you should be a religious person or support the goverment instead of having a good GPA.any way I analyes my decision and I married to my husband and moved to America for having better life for my children ,and continue my education as well too.
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Hanna
10/25/2009 05:54:14 pm
Journal Hanna Z ESLW-310
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Alina R
10/27/2009 07:34:53 am
A Tough Choice
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Olga O.
10/27/2009 04:21:51 pm
People often are in situations where they have to make tough choices. Sometimes their lives change because of the choices they make. I also was forced to choose one thing over another. These choices are very hard.
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Ming Kao
10/28/2009 10:26:04 am
Everyone must heard about the Snow White story. She was given the poison apple by the witch. The consequences for accepting the apple is becoming unconscious. Until the Prince come to kiss her and make her live again, the dwarfs and the animals, every one in the forest believe she was dead.
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Viktor Shcherba
11/4/2009 09:55:57 am
How Do I Change My Job to a Better One
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Nataliya Shcherba
11/4/2009 10:04:15 am
How Do I Change My Job to a Better One?
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mikyung
11/5/2009 10:24:56 am
We have to make a decision every moment,everytime. When I make a big decision, I'm fearful.
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Huulka
11/8/2009 12:57:26 pm
I’ve never though about choosing something in my life. I don’t like to chose something because I afraid about of the end. My life is going by many ways to rich my destiny. Whenever I think lots and make decisions, I lost something important to me. That’s way I hate to risk and to choose my life. For instants, I dreamed to study abroad and I work hard. Nobody asks for me,” Do you want to go to the USA?” NO, NO and NO…It’s only my life is going to my destiny and I don’t know how far I am supposed to travel. Also I don’t know what will be in the end. Event thought people think to choose something in their life, they had many risks. Why do people like that. Only thing I believe is how my life built, I will be going my way. JUST TO RICH MY DESTINY!!!
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Ana
11/9/2009 09:03:55 am
Ana
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Ana
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Alina
11/17/2009 09:17:02 am
Making a decision to do something new usually involves giving up something else. That's what makes it hard. In every situation we have to make a choice. Sometimes we make a harmful choice for our lives, because of our friends, parents or siblings.
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Alina A
11/17/2009 09:17:35 am
Making a decision to do something new usually involves giving up something else. That's what makes it hard. In every situation we have to make a choice. Sometimes we make a harmful choice for our lives, because of our friends, parents or siblings.
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Sylvia C
11/29/2009 05:00:25 pm
One of the toughest decisions I had to make was changing careers after ten years of working for the jewelery company and opening my sole proprietorship business. Working at the jewelery store I had a great customer base and social life, however I did not have the freedom of time that I wanted with my children. Becoming a business owner allowed me to work my own hours and have more time that I needed for my family. Being a business owner is not a easy task, however I am happy I made this important decision that changed my life.
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rannis rojas
12/7/2009 11:32:31 am
Have You Ever Made a Tough Choice?
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Khamida.R
12/8/2009 04:21:09 am
Sometimes in our life we have to choose something over another. It can be hard to choose but it's necessary to do. I had also in my life to choose something over another. There were many times to make a good choose. One of them was to make hard decision to move another country.First of all, it was hard to choose between to stay or to leave. Because of our parents didn't want to leave with us. So we didn't to leave them alone. But another side were our kids future. By thinking hard we chose to move to another country. Leaving our country was our the hardest choose in our life. In conclusion, I think in everyone's life we have to choose something over another. In my life I had many times of making a choice.
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Siley R.
12/8/2009 01:43:54 pm
The Decision I Make Really Change My Life
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Igor
12/9/2009 04:49:52 am
Tough Choice
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SF
12/9/2009 07:17:39 am
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Mercedes P.
12/9/2009 08:36:22 am
My family arrived in the United States in 1997, we met with my husband after 2 years. We were separated “violent” because we had a lot of problems then. During separation. There was sadness and pain. After the separation I felt depressed I could keep my mind focused on my family.
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Dmitriy Drozdov
12/10/2009 04:28:35 am
My choice.
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Lara M.
12/14/2009 03:45:00 am
I have experienced many things during my life. Many of which have made me who I am today. Many of the things have caused me ti want more in life, to expand my horizon and become a better person everyday. Although many of the decisions was about tough choices, one of them was to leave my home country and seek an excellent opportunity to expand my professional carrier. On December sixteen of 2006, was the date I left my family, my comfort, and my friends to chase my promissory future. I remember asking myself if that was the right decision to make. It could suffer the real pain of missing my family in the beginning. Almost three years later, I'm almost ready to get into the University of my dreams and become a person that can really make a different in the society. Today, I understand that making a big decision sometimes it is needed to face big obstacles too.
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Alex Co
12/14/2009 07:32:18 am
When I came to this country for the firs time I was 20 years old. My mother and I came to the US for vacations and after a few days we have a car accident and we decide to stay because she needs treatment because she gets injure. I meet my wife in this country and my whole life change. Now I have a 5 years old son and am proud of him.
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Nick G
12/15/2009 09:14:39 am
You Got A Chance
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Farhad-Tavatli
1/31/2010 12:12:58 pm
Last time when I made a tough decision that had changed my life was ten years ago. I remember when my father asked me, do you want to stay or move to another country for getting four year degree in university? and he continued you have a month to think and reply. I knew he was worried about my life. It was a tough question. I was young and in love with my x girl friend. On one hand I really didn't want leave her but, on the other hand my future was calling me. I didn't know what I had to do. I really loved my x and, I really didn't want to leave her but at the same time, that was a good option for me to improve my life in future for my own good. I really didn't know what I had to do? When I told her about what my father asked me immediately she started to cry and nag about I can't live without you. those words were bumping on my head and I was confused what I had to do? at last I said to myself that I can have both. I would move but not going to cut my relationship with her while I am not in a country on the other hand, I was wrong about mu decision because when I left my country after six month from that date she stopped talking to me and now she is married.
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